Dr Catherine Berry Stidsen


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Dr. Catherine Berry Stidsen, PhD, died peacefully on Wednesday May 18, 2022 at her cherished home ‘Oakwood’ following a short illness. Catherine and her beloved husband, Dr. Bent Stidsen (deceased 1981) designed their home to nestle into the Carolinian forest on the outskirts of Cayuga, Ontario. Catherine is survived by her brother, Donald (Barbara) Berry of California; nephew, Brian (Lori) Berry; niece Elizabeth Berry Casey and great nephews, Benjamin Duvall Berry and Nicholas Duvall Berry Though Catherine and Bent never had children, there are many of us, around the world, who feel privileged to have become part of her “adoptive” family. We have all been inspired by her "guts", her prodigious work ethic, her wicked sense of humour, her deep and challenging conversations, her abiding friendship, her faith, her belief in the power of love and the vision of a world where unity is possible. Catherine was born, raised and received grounding in her love for learning and the Catholic faith in Philadelphia, PA. She juggled work while studying part-time to complete her BSc, her Masters and finally her PhD in Religious Studies. For 30 years she shared a passion for learning with students and colleagues in the Catholic Secondary Schools of Hamilton, Ontario. In order to honour dreams that she and Bent shared for supporting learning in developing countries, from 1986-96, Catherine worked with her dear friend Bishop Leobard D'Souza to inaugurate the Nagpur Learning Centre in Nagpur, India. Her love for India was often reflected in the elegant clothes and shawls Catherine brought back from India. Following her retirement from High School teaching, Catherine unleashed her passion for community development. She was instrumental in supporting the work of the Cayuga and District Chamber of Commerce, the Cayuga Revitalization Committee and the successful launch of 2009 Doors Open Haldimand County. She was passionate about supporting Haldimand County heritage through her leadership on the Board of Cottonwood Mansion in Selkirk, Ontario. Her ability to paint stories with words captured “Good News Stories” of people and events in Haldimand County. Local citizens loved reading these stories in the weekly Haldimand Press. Of all her accomplishments, Catherine was especially proud to receive the Haldimand County Citizen of the Year award. Sincere thank you to Christine, Mandy, Gary and Darcie, who made it possible for Catherine to live out the last part of her life in her beloved home with her cast of feline companions. A special thank you to Dr Omar Ezzat and nurses at the Haldimand War Memorial Hospital and Cristina Lopes ( Niagara Caregivers & Personnel ) for her 24/7 care during Catherine's last 10 days at home and to her nurse Jenna Smith.
 
As arranged by Catharine, Funeral Mass will take place at St. Martin of Tours, Roman Catholic Church, 166 West Street, Smithville, Ontario on Thursday, May 26, at 12:00 pm. (visitation from 10 am until 12 noon) Cremation, followed by interment at a later date in Philadelphia.  http://www.memorialstreaming.ca/stidsen
 
As an expression of sympathy in lieu of flowers donations may be made to Cottonwood Mansion or the Cayuga Food Bank.
 
"Your suffering has ended, as you fought the battle, ran the race, and kept the faith. Well done, good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of your Lord."

 

 

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Posted by Dr. Peter Banting on
I was a colleague of Bent at McMaster University. My wife and I loved Catherine. She was such a charming, warm, and interesting person, full of ideas, dedicated and passionate about her home, her faith, her friends, and her communities both at home and in India. She worked so very hard for Cottonwood and left a lasting legacy for all of us to emulate. We will miss her sense of humour and her grace.
Posted by Don Berry on
To my beloved sister. Peace & rest forever in the eyes of the LORD.
Posted by Don Berry on
To my beloved sister. Peace & rest forever in the eyes of the LORD.
Posted by Leah Morris on
She was an amazing woman who lived an amazing life. I met her in the 1990s when she tutored for the HN Literacy Council. Intelligent, kind, gracious and a quiet but enduring presence. My sympathies to her friends and family.
Posted by Beth Ann Rufo on
Katie and I met in 1958 when we both worked in Center City Philadelphia. We've been friends since then. When she moved out on her own and I was, too, we spent a lot of time together. She loved teaching and was excellent at it. Catherine had a desire for truth, and she was willing to suffer that it might come--whether in school situations, civic endeavors, relationships with others and more. It was the way to practice her Catholic faith, to speak the truth in love to make real the life of God in the here and now. And it cost her a good deal along the way. Her love for Bent never ceased, and my joy at her death is that she is with the Risen Lord and Bent, too. No words can capture Kate, but to have known her has been a joy, a gift. Knowing Katie made you better--she did that for me over all these years. Kate, enjoy heaven! Love, Beth Ann
Posted by Richard Douglass-Chin on
I had the great good fortune to meet Catherine when I was 13 years old. She was my teacher then, and later became my friend, although in wisdom she was always my teacher. The world is a better place for having had Catherine in it. She was like a wise and gentle mother to me. I do believe that although she and Bent had no offspring, Catherine had many, many children. If we can carry forward even a sliver of her blessed light to share with our world, that will be a most wonderful achievement.
Posted by Josie Maria O'Neill on
Our deepest condolences to Catherine's family members. She will be missed at St. Stephen's parish family!! Catherine and her husband purchased the altar at St. Stephen's years ago, and it is the one that we still use. She was so involved with Lenten Lunches, retreats etc. where she would share her knowledge! R.I.P. Catherine!! God bless, from Art & Josie
Posted by Craig Sitter on
I have known Catherine for well over 30 years and during that long time she was a delight to visit with. Always unfailingly kind and optimistic, supremely intelligent and interesting. Her focus on her community was very evident and she devoted countless hours to numerous good causes. Haldimand County was certainly a better place for having had her reside within it. I always looked forward to our visits while jointly serving on the board of the Cottonwood Mansion Preservation Foundation. She very kindly introduced me to a number of her highly educated and very interesting colleagues. Catherine will certainly be missed and never forgotten.
Posted by Melissa Collver on
I met Catherine through our work with Ontario Trillium Foundation. She was a wonderful friend and I valued her insights and opinions. She was honourable, kind and intelligent. Her love for her husband, family, friends, community, home and her cats was genuine and inspiring. Rest easy dear Catherine. I will miss you.
Posted by April Cormaci on
Our deepest condolences to Catherine's family. We met Catherine through Cottonwood Mansion when we moved to Canada 15 years ago. It was our privilege and pleasure to become friends with her, see her often through the years, and keep up an email correspondence through the pandemic. She was a such a delight to know. Her insights, her experiences, her knowledge were vast. We will miss you, my dear, and keep you in our hearts and thoughts.
April Cormaci and Ian Durand
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